The Secret and Great Sex #
by Melody Brooke, MA, Conflict Coach, Motivational Speaker
Using the “Law of Attraction” to enhance your sex life makes a lot of sense. Yvonne Fulbright on Fox News wrote about how the book doesn’t really explain how to use it in this way, but if you use a little thought you can figure out how.  Her article talks about how the boo “The Secret” has become so trendy and she has really held herself back from commenting, but now she is rooting for the ideas.

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Personally, I’ve been an advocate of using the principles of “The Law of Attraction” since I was a kid.  Someone gave me “The Power of Positive Thinking” by Norman Vincent Peal when I was 14 and I immediately started using it to attract boys.  I imagined myself as popular, and getting lots of attention. I even got a boy I had been pining away for.  
Of course the problem is: what do you do with them once you have caught one.
Being a clueless child for many reasons, I honestly didn’t know.  At 14 –20 I guess that is somewhat understandable. But the truth is that when I married at 24 and again at 28, I was still clueless as to what to do with one once I caught them.
My own background is that my parents divorced when I was 2, my mother remarried and divorced again when I was in my 30’s.  Clearly, I had no models for how you have and maintain an intimate connection.  Luckily for me my first husband helped me discover my sexual feelings, but that was only a part of the story. I was very unhappy in my marriages and rarely felt a desire to have sex with my then husbands.
But being a positive thinker from way back, I didn’t give up and after a 5 year dating hiatus I started dating and married my current husband.  If it hadn’t been for my discovery of the Cycles of the Heart model, we would have undoubtedly fallen into the same poorly calculated intimacy of my first two marriages.  
Funny, I don’t consider myself the creator of the model, because I think what I am is the discoverer of it.  It was there, after all, before I came along. I just got lucky enough to be able to see the patterns of how we relate to each other. Now I desperately want others to discover how the cycles work in their own lives and transform their relationships with it.  That is now my focus for my positive thinking!  


Tuesday, March 24, 2009 3:08:01 PM (Central Standard Time, UTC-06:00) #    Comments [2]  | 
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