Clearly, you still love each other, so what’s the problem?
Life, and your partner’s role in it used to be simple. You felt the potential in every kiss. But over the years you find your partner slowly withdrawing from you and the sex just isn’t what it was.
Now it is more complicated. Both of you have more to lose and fear is an unpleasant bedfellow. (Even worse when it explodes into anger).
Everyone of us goes through this and has to choose to leave or start over with someone new (believe me, I’ve tried this one more than once). Most people just end up in the same place with someone else.
Or you can just give up. I’ve seen so many people do this, it breaks my heart. We therapists call that ‘emotional divorce”. You might still be living together and legally married, but on an emotional level your lover has left the building.
Your third choice is to learn what it takes to make it great again.
That’s where we come in.
Inside your lover’s bad moods or lack of sexual desire is the key to great sex. Learn to fulfill your partner’s hidden desires and you will discover the secret to great sex.
Okay, I know that seems contradictory, but it’s not. The real reasons for your disconnect lie hidden in those “moods”.
We call it Turning landmines into goldmines.
“I’ve been married twice before and I can tell you this: both of my ex husbands would say Mike was lying if he told them how much sex we have. They wouldn’t believe my orgasms either. Or when I have them. The truth is that after two failed marriages, I finally get what Great Sex is.”
“I thought I knew what it was. My ex wife and I had regular, decent sex. Now, well it’s obvious what I was missing. There just wasn’t any way to know before. The truth is if you have been driving a Ford Fiesta all your life then you have no idea what it’s like to drive a Masserati.”
We know you want sex to be Great, too, and that’s why we put this program together. It just doesn’t make sense for everyone to waste so much of our lives figuring it out themselves.
We have discovered that having Great Sex is not about tricks, rules, techniques or how to use toys. It’s about what is between your ears. Shift that — and you change everything.
“I was feeling really down because my husband was just not interested in sex. I couldn’t understand it. We had a good sex life at one time, but he just said he’s not into it. I tried all the things the other websites suggested but it just didn’t fly with him. Thank you, thank you, thank you, Melody and Mike. We are finally having passionate sex and closer than I even knew was possible!”
Well, the old excuse that the newness has worn off is just plain wrong. Sex gets better the more we learn about what turns each other on and earn the confidence to try new things. Sex is grown up playtime!
If it has never been like that for you, where it gets better with time, then at least one of you is not connecting with their sexuality. There’s a good chance there are some unpleasant sexual experiences in their past, Jump down to "Here's the Deal" below. You’ll want to get started with the Great Sex program right away. This problem won’t go away without help.
So, you do remember when sex was fun and exciting, but its an old memory. Your relationship with your partner always comes to bed with you. The struggles and demands of modern life have to create conflict between the two of you. The way we are all taught to deal with conflict by our culture, parents, teachers, and media is not good for your sex life. It’s no wonder that our sex life suffers with the rest of our relationship. Eventually, the weight of all that frustration and anger will sink not just your sex life, but the entire relationship.
It doesn’t have to be that way!
It’s disappointing, and it hurts, to hear this so often. The problem is its usually someone who is committed to their partner and their family, and they are just not getting the sex they need. Surprisingly, we hear this more from women than men. Frankly, it’s epidemic.
You can change the role of sex in your relationship even if your partner doesn’t want to go there. Sure, it won’t be as fast as having them on board, but you can do it. But know this, it is definitely worth it. The personal, emotional, and economic cost of leaving them and dreaming that the next one will be better is a lousy gamble.
So, it adds up to this, there are many reasons why your partner isn’t interested in sex:
In every case, they just don’t see sex with you as the joyful play that you want and need.
Our bodies enjoy sex, but our minds don’t always get into it. This is often true if we’ve been involved in sex before we were able to understand what was going on or if it involved bad experiences.
Ladies, we know sex often feels like another chore. How about you husbands, are you just servicing your wife to keep her happy?
It’s not your fault if it just doesn’t turn you on that much, but it is a major problem that you share. You can’t change it by yourself. Make no mistake, you need the Great Sex tools so both of you reach a level of sexual intimacy and ecstatic joy that no one can reach by themselves. No kidding, it really does take two to tango! Does this make sense to you?
“My husband was so disgusted with me because I just wasn’t interested in sex anymore. It was hard, at first, to convince my husband to watch the lessons with me, until he saw the exercises! Then he was all-in. It wasn’t always easy, but it has been so healing. Thank you so much.”
Look, there are plenty of resources to teach you more about G-spots, oral sex, different positions, etc. The reality is that none of it will make your partner enjoy sex more until they are able to enjoy sex some. In fact, one of the ways child abusers shame their victims into submission is stimulating them to orgasm and using it as proof the child wanted it. The Nazis did similar things in their sterilization experiments. This is all horrible stuff that leaves lasting shame. It poisons our ability to be sexual.
And, believe it or not, it may have happened to your partner. The bottom line is it’s happened to at least 25% of us!
Fortunately your relationship and the things you’ll learn in the Great Sex Program can help everyone discover the joy of sex. And you get to be there for the awakening!
It's time to take this No Risk opportunity to discover the Great Sex waiting for you. Please, don't waste any more of your life being miserable and unsatisfied.
Here's wishing you Great Sex and Great Times,
Melody and I met in the Fall of 1999, shortly after the painful end of my 20 year marriage. Here’s the scary part: we were married only eight months later, Let’s just say this model has been tested.
In our first year together I graduated from college at the young age of 40. Just imagine, I remarried within a year of being divorced, began a new career, went to work for a big corporation after being self-employed for 20 years, bought a house, worked hard to preserve my close relationship with my son and daughter, and then I moved in with Melody and her three daughters.
And well, Melody, she was married twice before! Obviously she had no clue how to make a relationship work either. Funny thing is she is a marriage and family therapist!
Frankly no one else thought we would survive the first year. What they didn’t know was we had the beginnings of Melody’s model to get us started on the amazing path of Great Sex and deep connection. I would never have had the courage to jump into that mess without believing there was something magical about how we worked together.
It all comes down to this, if it didn’t work Melody wouldn’t be able to say this, “My ex-husbands would tell Mike he was lying if he told them how much and how great our sex life is today.” And I wouldn’t have this smile on my face all the time!
Let me explain, Melody’s 20 years counseling experience runs from helping couples with the usual relationship and parenting troubles to survivors of ritualized cult abuse with Dissociative Identity Disorder (multiple personalities). Amazingly, the model she developed to resolve the inner conflicts of multiple personalities turned out to be a relationship saver for her more typical clients.
Look, she has written two books on the model and how to use it. But the This is Great Sex Streaming Videos brings you her effective techniques for resolving conflicts between couples and gets you back in bed having the spontaneous, free sex you should be having.
One more important thing, Melody’s experience with self help books and counselors during her first two marriages convinced her there had to be a better way than was being offered to her at the time. Disturbingly, the advice always seemed to put more distance between her and her husbands instead of building a path to bring them closer.
The result? Melody says, “Now that I have discovered what works, I am ecstatically happy with Mike and our marriage of 10 years. Mike and I have worked to develop this model for my clients - and for us - over those 10 years. It works.”
You’ll be glad to know, I feel the same way. It works and it works for both of us. It can work for you, too. We guarantee it!
“I learned more from this than I did from 20 years of therapy!” - J.S.
We are so sure the Seminar works that if at any point during the first 60 days, you are not absolutely thrilled with your Great Sex Playbook, Video Lessons, or eBook and we will personally refund your ENTIRE investment. Just drop us an email and tell us why. We’ll promptly return ever cent you paid.
No hassles. No hard feelings. We have completely taken the risk out so that you have NOTHING to lose by trying the seminar now.
And if you decide you want the refund, you keep all the bonuses as our FREE gift to you for your effort.
Deal?